You may have heard of EMDR Therapy, but what exactly is it?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It’s a structured, evidence-based therapy that helps your brain reprocess distressing memories and experiences. Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR doesn’t require you to talk through every detail of what happened. Instead it uses bilateral stimulation (guided eye movements, tapping, or sounds) to help your brain process painful memories the way it naturally would during REM sleep, reducing their emotional intensity.

The result isn’t forgetting what happened, but being able to remember it without being overwhelmed by it. Many clients describe EMDR as finally being able to put something down that they’ve been carrying for years.

What Can EMDR Help With?

EMDR is a highly versatile therapy that can be effective for a wide range of concerns. I use EMDR to treat:

Trauma, Complex Trauma & PTSD

EMDR was originally developed to treat PTSD and remains one of the gold-standard treatments for trauma. Whether you experienced a single overwhelming event or years of ongoing trauma, EMDR can help your nervous system finally process and release what it’s been holding.

Attachment Wounds

Early experiences of neglect, emotional unavailability, or inconsistent caregiving can shape how you see yourself and relate to others can, leaving you with negative core beliefs you carry into adulthood. EMDR can access and reprocess these deeply held beliefs and attachment patterns in ways that talk therapy sometimes can’t reach alone.

Anxiety & Panic Disorder

Anxiety often has roots in past experiences, moments when your nervous system learned that the world wasn’t safe and over-relies on a survival-threat response moving forward. EMDR helps identify and reprocess those root experiences, reducing the anxiety response at its source rather than just managing the symptoms. EMDR can also alleviate panic disorder, or the fear of panic attacks after having experienced one or many.

Music Industry Stress & Performance Anxiety

The music industry creates a unique cocktail of high-pressure experiences. EMDR can help music industry professionals process the specific experiences and beliefs that fuel performance anxiety, burnout, and self-doubt.

Calming therapy office decor representing EMDR therapy in Nashville.

Many people come to EMDR feeling nervous about what might come up, about losing control, or about having to relive painful experiences. I want to reassure you that EMDR is a carefully paced, client-centered and trauma-informed process. You are in control at every stage. We will never move into processing until you feel genuinely ready and equipped with the tools to handle what comes up.

Some clients notice significant shifts after just a few EMDR sessions. Others work through EMDR over a longer period, particularly when processing complex or layered trauma. Either way the pace is always guided by you and your nervous system, and you are not experiencing it alone.

Commonly Asked Questions About EMDR Therapy

Do I have to retell my story?

One of the most common concerns people have about trauma therapy is the fear of having to relive or retell everything in detail. With EMDR you don’t. The processing happens largely through your nervous system’s own healing mechanisms rather than through narrative retelling. You may work with images, sensations, emotions, and beliefs related to a memory without needing to describe it in full detail.

How does EMDR work & what are the 8 phases?

EMDR follows a structured eight-phase protocol designed to ensure safety, thorough processing, and lasting results. Here’s a brief overview of what to expect:

  • Phase 1 + 2 History Taking & Preparation: We begin by getting to know each other and building the trust and skills you need before processing begins. I’ll gather your history, identify a collection of memories (“targets”), and teach you grounding and resourcing techniques to help you feel safe and regulated throughout the process.
  • Phase 3 Assessment: Together we pick a specific memory or experience to start with, along with the negative belief it led you to believe about yourself, for example “I am not safe” or “I am not enough,” and the positive belief you’d like to believe instead, for example “I am safe” or “I am worthy.”
  • Phases 4-7 Processing & Installation: Using bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or sounds) we work through the memory until its emotional charge is significantly reduced and the positive belief feels genuinely true. This can happen in a single session or across multiple sessions depending on the complexity of the memory. We can stop at any point to ground and re-stabilize if it becomes too overwhelming. Every processing session concludes with ample time to debrief and use a grounding tool together so you can integrate back into your day.
  • Phase 8 Reevaluation: At the start of each new session we check in on previously processed memories to ensure the progress has held and address anything that may have emerged between sessions.

Do I have to come in person for EMDR? Can I do it virtually?

I offer EMDR therapy both in person at Three Cords Therapy in Nashville and via telehealth across the state of Tennessee. Online EMDR is just as effective as in-person EMDR. Bilateral stimulation can be delivered through screen-based eye movement tools, audio, or tapping techniques that you can do yourself with guidance. If you’re located outside of Nashville or simply prefer the convenience of telehealth, online EMDR is a fully viable option.

Is EMDR right for me?

EMDR is a wonderful fit for many clients who feel stuck, often experience strong emotional or physical reactions when reminded of past events, or anyone who carries a deep belief about themselves, like “I am broken,” “I am not enough,” “I am not safe” that they logically know isn’t true but can’t seem to shake. However, EMDR isn’t for every client, and that is okay. Therapy is meant to be individualized and EMDR is not the only path to healing.

The best way to find out if EMDR is right for you is to have a conversation. Reach out for a free 15-minute consultation and we can talk through what you’re carrying and whether EMDR might be the right tool to help you put it down.